Seduction Arts
This site is dedicated to the most dangerous creature on the face of the planet. The beautiful woman. And i wouldnt have it any other way.
Why are we here guys.
It can be a little over whelming to come to a place like this and just start reading. There are a lot of ideas in the attraction arts, a lot of different methods, and a lot of good and bad advice. So im writing this as a kind of "how do I get started and really learn something" guide.
Things you NEED to know...
First EXPECT to read a LOT. Most if not all of the best pickup and attraction artists never stop reading to better them selves.
Let me define Game a little bit here.... Game is not something you do... Game is something you are. Like you know you're a man "or woman as the case may be" is how much you will need to make it a part of you. It's not something you can turn on and off at will, you are embarking on a total life changing experience. This includes EVERY aspect of who you are. Your personality, your body, your personal style, EVERY... let me say it again EVERY relationship you have.
This is NOT easy. Learning to put off your ego and the limitations it shackles you with. Learning to get outside your comfort zone and enjoy the sensation of being over the edge. Getting past your sticking points. It all takes real effort and there is no half way. You succeed or you fail, there is no 50%.
But let me tell you ... its soo worth it.
In the beginning....
First off if you are here and have not been involved with the community before you need to know the basics. Check out our recomended reading list or simply Click Here!. Steve P has been voted one of the best Pickup Artists in the world. As a guy whos read it all let me say his stuff is absolutly top of the line and the 30/30 club is a huge resource for anyone. Just remember when you pull back the curtain and really see how the matrix works.... Be ready because once you know you can never go back.
If you have decided to move ahead then here are a few more tips.
Inner Game...
There is a lot of misinformation and misconception about inner game. You will see a lot of people throw around posts like "tighten up your inner game" on forums. I think the reason why is that it's hard to define and give advice on exactly how to build your inner game. But make no mistake INNER GAME IS THE NUMBER ONE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THIS WHOLE PROCESS.
Inner game boils down to how confident you are in yourself, how accepting you are of yourself, and how you deal with your own hang-ups. It is considered by MPUA (Thats master pickup artists) authorities to be the absolute MOST critical part of Game. Before all else you must give attention to YOU and YOUR inner game. It is something you will always need to be working on. It's a lifetime's pursuit.
This is the hardest part to get through because it involves YOU changing YOU. It involves getting past your limiting beliefs and making adjustments to your deep core understanding. Getting out in the field and using a beginning method can be very beneficial at giving you confidence in dealing with women. It doesn't hurt to talk to people and be social.
A lot of this boils down to your identity and your frame controle for that again you can check our reading list for recomdations or simply look Here are some great inner game resources. Check out the books on How to Beat Approach Anxiety and Learning to Take Chances under the beginners section.
Body language....
This is super important for projecting the right attitude. You can be the most confident guy in the world, but if you give off the wrong vibe because of your body language you will come across as incongruent and creepy.
A fantastic resource for learning body language is the definitive book on body language by Alan Pease.
You can also learn how to properly frame an interaction click here for help with your Frame
Game structure .....
When you first start you will likely use a lot of canned openers and stories. Some may be your own and some may not. However it is important to your growth that you eventually start coming up with our own stuff and to do that you must understand structure.
Attraction and pickup is based on structure, some are very specific and some not so much, like direct natural game. As you grow you will want to find the structure that fits with your own personal attitude and style. There are a ton of styles the list goes on and on. My recommendation is that you start with these guys Click Here! They have a great begginers guide and extended program.
The point is that you need to learn not just that it works but how and why it works in order to really make this your own and internalize it.
In the end...
Eventually you will reach the point where all the games and structure fall away. You will remember it but you will come to a point where your no longer working game and your just being unapologetically you.